Whatever your political beliefs, and whether or not you think a presidential speech should be broadcast live in a classroom, the central message in President Obama’s speech to the nation’s students is worth repeating to your children. If you choose to do so in your own words, that’ll work just as well. The point is we all want our kids to do well as students, feel proud of their accomplishments, and learn that hard work has real value.

Here’s what I took away from the speech, and how I plan on conveying it to my 5-year-old in terms he’ll understand.

“No matter what you want to do with your life – I guarantee that you’ll need an
education to do it.” You know how you say you want to be a doctor when you grow up? Well, doctors are really, really smart because they tried hard and paid attention in school. So make sure you listen to your teacher.

“But at the end of the day, the circumstances of your life – what you look like, where you
come from, how much money you have, what you’ve got going on at home – that’s no
excuse for neglecting your homework or having a bad attitude… That’s no excuse
for not trying.” Sometimes you might have a bad or sad day, or might wish you had something another kid has, but you’ll feel better if you think about things that make you happy.

“Some of the most successful people in the world are the ones who’ve had the most failures. Some things can be tough to figure out or might be harder for you than it is for other kids, but the more you practice, the better you’ll get.” Every kid is good at different things because everyone is special in their own way. You’re great at doing puzzles, but have a hard time riding a bike. Just remember to do your best, keep trying, and you’ll make everyone proud.

“Asking for help isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of strength. It shows you have the courage to admit when you don’t know something, and to learn something new.” Mommy and Daddy are always here to help you learn and do your homework, and explain things you don’t understand. And even though we sometimes tell you to stop asking so many questions (like “are we there yet?”) because you’re the most curious kid in the world, keep right on asking.

At the end of the day, it’s up to us to keep our children motivated and help them develop a love of learning. And if hearing the President tout the merits of education or imparting your own message of encouragement will help accomplish that, I say go for it. It certainly can’t hurt!

What did you think of President Obama’s speech? And did your kids watch it? Share your thoughts in the comments below.

-Dawn Papandrea

Things sure have changed since I was in grade school. Our kids are way smarter than we were, the opportunities are boundless, and don’t even get me started on the leaps and bounds of technology! As my oldest son J.J. gets ready to begin kindergarten, I’m so excited to relive those dear old golden school days through him. I hope you’ll come along with me to discuss school and education issues here at Motts’ More to the Core blog!

So who am I? I’m a mom of two boys (J.J., and my 4-month-old Dante, who already loves his applesauce!) and a blogger for ParentSociety.com. I’m also a freelance magazine writer who’s written for Parenting, Fit Pregnancy, Pregnancy, and American Baby, and more. In short, I learn something new about being a mom everyday! I’m also the managing editor of The CollegeBound Network, where I get to write about education. Here, I’ll get to write about kids and school, my two favorite things.